One Brain® kinesiology is one of the modern approaches that deal with an issue not only in present time but also in the so called “age recession”. There are methods who call it regression. Anyway, you have a look into your past to understand and to defuse what’s going on in the present time. You have a look at your current stressor from a different perspective, you understand what might have happened, you “heal” the situation in the past and it will stop recurring in your present life
BUT
There’s a big BUT. So often, we hear people say "my father has never appreciated me so I can’t find a good job." "My teacher didn’t like me so I hate the school system and I am not able to learn whatever." Or even worse “XY told me that all the problems I have are due to my mother.”
We tend to blame and shame other people, especially our parents, for the problems that we are having. It’s a complete misunderstanding of the age recession. “Heal” means understanding and an atonement. My father has never listened to me, but in the present time I can choose to listen to myself, to listen to other people and even to listen to my father.
If we blame and shame others for what’s happening to us, it’s like if we were holding a hot coal that we want to throw on them. Who gets burned? Us! And what’s worse, staying in the role of a victim, we give up our power.
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